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After years of sitting across from couples in crisis, repair, and everything in between, we can confidently say this:

Most relationship struggles aren’t random. They’re patterned.

In this VIP episode of In Session, we unpack the dynamics therapists see repeatedly:

  • The pursuer vs withdrawer nervous system clash
  • The quiet resentment of the scorekeeper marriage
  • Trauma bonds mistaken for “intense love”
  • Avoiding the real issue by fighting about everything else
  • Staying for comfort instead of connection

This conversation is honest, clinical, and reflective — not about blaming partners, but about recognizing cycles.

If you’re in a relationship, leaving one, or trying to heal from one — this episode will likely hold a mirror up in ways you didn’t expect.

VIP listeners get the full depth, examples from the therapy room, and the reflection questions we would actually ask a couple in session.

Let’s go deeper.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy or professional mental health care.

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